First Trip to the Beach

We made a last minute trip to Port Aransas, TX yesterday for some fun in the sun. We went to Port A in May 2012 for our wedding anniversary. We  came home from that trip with two precious blessings. (Yes, Juliet and Jacob were conceived there)
After we lost Jacob, I told Brett I never wanted to go back. I was afraid the memories would be too much for me. But for some reason, on Friday I felt called to the beach. So we packed up our crew and heading out early Saturday morning for a day trip at the beach. The kids had a blast and Juliet loved the water. It was her first trip to any beach and she really enjoyed it. It was a great way to start off the summer, and we will defiantly be doing it more often this summer!

I know Jacob was smiling down on us yesterday. It just felt right. I look forward to going back, and the kids are already begging for another trip! (Although next time, I think we will bring more sunscreen, haha)

"Jake" the Elephant

Jake and Juliet

She loved covering Mommy in sand

Daddy holding Juliet and Jake

Kisses from Daddy

Jake at the beach

Juliet is... GOING TO BE A BIG SISTER

Yes, you read that correctly, Juliet and Jacob will officially be big brother and sister to their new baby brother due mid August. We have been keeping it quiet this time around for many reasons.

For those of you who don't know, Brett and I have suffered 6 miscarriages early in pregnancies. For this reason we don't ever say anything until we are out of the 12 week mark. Then add on top of it the stress from the twin's pregnancy and all the possibilities of my water going again. So we wanted to wait until we hit viability (the time when the doctors would at least try and save our baby's life if he were to come early, which is 24 weeks).
Now that we have passed that, I can finally breath a little easier and begin to be excited about bringing home another baby. So here are some of the details for those who are interested.

We learned in January when I went in for my yearly exam that my birth control failed in November. I was roughly 8 weeks pregnant. And to be exact, it looks like I conceived on November 8th, 2013: Jacob's one year Angelversary. We were shocked and scared and worried, but also slightly relieved. Brett and I both wanted another child, but we could not see going down that path again by our own decision. We have been praying that if our family was to grow again, that God would just do it. And that he did! We knew this pregnancy was going to be hard, both emotionally and physically, but thankfully God has kept this pregnancy "easy" and healthy. Yes I was sick and exhausted until 12 weeks, and I have been on pins and needles about my water breaking again, but I had no major issues. My doctor has been wonderful and we are keeping a close eye on my fluid levels as well as making sure I am not going into labor. I get ultrasounds every 3-4 weeks as well as P17 shots to help keep preterm labor away. Due to my history, we do not expect for me to go full term, but we are hoping that will be the case. As it stands right now, we are shooting for August 1st. (Which just happens to be the day my water broke with Jacob two years ago).

We have also had some very God-like things happen throughout this pregnancy that just confirm to me that God is at work and he will deliver a healthy beautiful baby boy into our family when the time is right. (For instance, at just 13 weeks we found out this little one is a boy! We never have found out that early, but God knew I needed to know, so he made it possible!)

With all this being said, I ask for continued prayers for our family as we get ready to welcome another little boy into our home. I will be honest, I have not held a baby boy since Jacob died in my arms.

 I know it will be very emotional for all involved, so prayers for peace would be greatly appreciated. As well as prayers for a continued healthy pregnancy. Oh and prayers for Juliet. It will be a big transition for her from being the baby and getting all the "mommy time" she could want to having to share me.

Juliet and Griffin

For each of our children's first birthday, they get their "own" german shepherd puppy. We raise and train shepherds, so we have a house full of them. Juliet's pup just got here a few weeks ago and he is a sweetie pie. His name is Griffin. Griffin was born on February 14th, 2014. (Juliet's "supposed to be" first birthday.) He was also a preemie and needed extra care in order to survive. They are bonding great and Juliet loves to "tickle" him. I know they will be great friends as they grow up together and Griffin will be just the protector she needs.

17 Months and Going Strong

I realized I have not given any detailed updates on Juliet lately. So get ready...

Juliet will be 18 months on May 6th. She is making wonderful progress in all aspects and truly is a joy to be around. Juliet has been spending her time playing outdoors at our new property. (We are in the process of building a new house on 7 acres.) She is now able to hold onto and swing on a tire swing, go down the "roller coaster", and play catch with her big brother. She loves to be a part of the "big kids" and tries hard to keep up. She has recently figured out to rock on her rocking horse, and will spend hours a day rocking away.

Juliet has also started talking more. Her favorite words are "whoa", "wow", "boom" and "yeah"(especially when our pastor pauses during his sermon). She is slowly learning "all done" when she is done eating. She will say "dada" when she wants him, but its like pulling teeth to get her to say "mama". When you are the 5th child in the family, you learn to be heard, and Juliet is no exception. If she is getting "ignored" or talked over, she will squeal like a little piggy until everyone stops and looks at her. She usually just smiles and is happy to once again be the center of everyone's world. (She is not spoiled at all, haha)

Juliet is now 22 pounds and is starting to try and "run". It looks more like a waddle, but I'll take it! She will finish up with PT this month, and only receive evaluations every 6 weeks to make sure she is staying on track. She goes back to get another evaluation in August for a "corrected age" 18 months evaluation.

Juliet has been given the OK to start going out in public again. YAY for NO MORE RSV!! She will not be allowed in any form of child care until June, and we are advised to stay away from extremely crowded areas. So far we have been back to church for 3 weeks and she has done very well. She still gets over stimulated very easy, so we will be taking things slow when it comes to introducing her to public places.

Easter was a blast. We were all back at church as a family, which was wonderful. Juliet was big enough to go "egg hunting" with her big brothers and sister. She loves to open and close the eggs over and over.

Overall, Juliet is doing wonderful and keeping me busy. Every day we blessed to have her in our life, and the joy she brings in irreplaceable. Jacob will always be missed, but Juliet is our link to him and I see him in her every day.

Sick Baby

This past week we took Juliet in to get her second to last synagist shot. I am so looking forward to being done with this chapter of her story. Unfortunately, the next day she started feeling very sick. She was lethargic, had a slight fever, and she was breathing faster than normal. My first instinct is to always check her O2s. She was still stating around 97, but she just looked off. My mommy instincts told me something was not right. I took her to see her doctor on Wednesday. She had a horrible ear infection, her fever had jumped up to 103, and her breathing was still faster than normal. Her doctor was concerned with the sound of her breathing, so we headed over to get an x-ray of her lungs.

We got both good and bad news. Juliet did NOT have RSV, which is always the biggest fear with premature babies with weak lungs. However, she did have pneumonia in her right lung. Her right lung is the stronger of the two. Due to being born early, her left lung was damaged more than her right. This means that her right lung was not working as well now, which was putting more stress on her left, weak lung. We started her on a steroid antibiotic and watched her like a hawk. We agreed that if possible, it was best to keep her home instead of taking her to the hospital and risk exposing her to other illnesses. Brett and I took turns staying up with her at night and keeping an eye on her breathing. By the end of those first 24 hours she was feeling better and her breathing had slowed. The doctor said it would probably take 2-3 weeks for her to fully overcome the pneumonia.

Even with doing everything we can, we cannot always keep her from getting sick. I am so thankful God has given me my mommy instincts and allowed me to know my children well enough to know when they are not themselves. Our doctor had mentioned if we had waited even another 24 hours, it probably would have ended up with her needed oxygen at the hospital. We are just so glad we caught it fast and she is on the upswing now!

Valentine's Day 2014

Juliet with Jacob's urn

Today marks the day Juliet and Jacob "should" be celebrating their first birthday. Oh the what if...

Instead, Juliet is 15 months old now and progressing great. She went in for her 15 month check up and here are her stats (all of these are based on full term babies)

Head circumference: 17.91 inches (45 percentile)
Weight: 20lbs 8oz (39 percentile)
Height: 29.5 inches (15th percentile)

Over all, her development has been great and she is growing at a constant rate. She is healthy, which is wonderful as we begin to come to the end of RSV season. We will be continue to be on lock down until the middle of April.

Juliet is consistently taking 3-7 steps at a time, and she is really enjoying being able to be up. She loves to walk with help all over our house! I cannot believe she will be a toddler before too long! We will go into First Steps for a full evaluation in March. That should be our last appointment with them as long as everything goes well.
All in all, she is doing wonderful and we are excited that she is improving so well. Thank you for all the continue prayers for her and our family!

Juliet and "Jacob Bear"

Our Girl is Almost WALKING!!!

It has been a while since I updated on here, so there are a lot of new things going on!
Juliet is making wonderful progress this year and so far we are in awe of her abilities. She is down to only one therapy session a week instead of the two she was getting last year. She is standing on her own and loving it! She will bounce to music and loves to "dance" with mommy. She has just started clapping, and expects everyone to clap for her when she does it. Trust me, she will stare you down until you clap for her. (She is going to be very upset when she realizes she really is not the center of the universe).

Just in the past week, she has begun taking steps on her own. She has gone up to 3 steps before she fell into Daddy's arms. She is so proud of herself and she loves being up. It won't be long before our little miracle child is a TODDLER!! Oh where has the time gone?!

We have also started working on sign language with her. She now knows "all done" and "more". Its great to see her communicating and the joy on her face when she realizes we understand what she wants. (Well, unless she tells us "all done" during therapy, and doesn't get her way).  She has also started to babble more, and loves to "talk" to her big brother Jackson.

She is weighting right at 21 pounds and has started to join in when Daddy wrestles with the big kids. It is so wonderful to see her interacting with her siblings and becoming the independent child that she is.

We are still on "house arrest" until the middle of April, but so far we have managed to avoid any major illnesses, so it must be working.  It will be an adjustment for all of us to go back out into public when we are allowed to, but I am looking forward to showing off our girl to all our close friends and church family.

We are getting close to the one year anniversary of her coming home from the Hospital. I still cannot believe she has been home for a YEAR!!! I expect one day, these dates may not seem as big to me, but I cannot help but think of all we have accomplished in the past year. I am so THANKFUL God has blessed me with this little girl, and even though the beginning of her life was not "great", I wouldn't trade it for anything.